We invite you to RSVP under the “RSVP” tab on our website no later than November 5, 2025. If we don't receive your response by that date, we'll assume you're unable to attend -- and we'll truly miss celebrating with you!

No. Our ceremony is at Holy Name of Jesus Cathedral and our reception is at the Country Club at Wakefield Plantation, both located in Raleigh, NC. Please note that both locations are wheelchair accessible and have elevators.

Yes – we believe that the Holy Name of Jesus is a hallowed place and that God is present in the tabernacle. Therefore, we ask that guests keep conversations to a minimum while inside the church. For ceremony attire, please refer to the Dress Code question on this page. We will not be having a kiss or dip at the end of the ceremony (we’ll wait to do that until outside!) and ask that guests refrain from clapping or cheering inside the church. There will be plenty of time to celebrate joyfully outside and at the reception. Thank you for respecting these traditions, and please reach out if you have any questions.

Yes, there is a large parking lot at each location.

Yes! We have three hotels with room blocks. Please see our “Travel” tab for more information!

For the ceremony, we kindly ask that men wear suits, and women wear dresses or skirts that are knee-length or longer with covered shoulders. Head coverings for women (such as veils or hats) are also encouraged. For the evening reception, the dress code is black-tie optional. A tuxedo or dark colored suit and tie is perfect for men, while women may choose an evening gown or a cocktail dress that is midi- or knee-length. There will be time in between the ceremony and reception if you'd like to change into black-tie optional attire before the celebration.

We are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you received a plus-one, they will appear under your name when you RSVP.

Children are welcome to attend the ceremony. However, our reception will be an adults only celebration (21+). We appreciate your understanding and hope this gives everyone a chance to relax and enjoy the evening! We will be happy to provide you with reputable local childcare options for the evening if you would like.

We'll kick things off with cocktail hour hors d'oeuvres followed by a sit-down dinner with your choice of entree, including a vegetarian option. Allergy-friendly options will also be clearly marked. Yes, there will be a full open bar -- drinks on us, hangover on you! Please drink responsibly and bring a valid ID.

You can find our complete wedding registry here on our website (and purchase directly from our wish list) under the "Registry" tab. We are also registered at Tailored Home in Greenville, DE and Quintessentials in Raleigh, NC. A wedding card box will be at our reception, but we kindly ask that you do not bring physical gifts to the wedding.

Our wedding will take place at Holy Name of Jesus Cathedral in Raleigh, NC on November 29, 2025. The ceremony will begin at 2:00pm sharp and will last roughly 45 minutes. Our reception begins promptly at 5:00pm at the Country Club at Wakefield. Please refer to our "Order of Events" tab for specific timing and locations. NOTE: There is a short gap in between the ceremony and reception -- please take this time to change, freshen up, take a nap, grab a drink, etc.!

Check out the "Things to Do" tab to see some of our favorite spots to eat, drink and explore in the city where we fell in love!

We kindly ask that you keep our wedding "unplugged" and refrain from taking any photos or videos at our wedding ceremony out of respect for the church and our photographer. However, please feel free to take lots of photos and videos at our reception, and share with us using the QR codes found on your table!

Please email Matt and Julia at MattandJulia30@gmail.com. We are happy to answer any additional questions you may have!